3 ‘Rules To Kiss’ This Girl Goes Viral: Who Is She, Allergic To Love?

For most, a kiss is a simple act of love and affection, but for Boston-based TikTok user Caroline Cray Quinn, it could be deadly. Quinn suffers from a chronic condition called Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS), which causes her immune system to respond to common substances as severe allergens. To protect herself, she has developed strict guidelines for her potential partners before they can lock lips with her.

What is Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS)?

Mast Cell Activation Syndrome is a rare disorder where mast cells in the body malfunction, releasing chemicals in response to harmless substances, leading to life-threatening allergic reactions. According to the Cleveland Clinic, an episode of MCAS can cause symptoms such as hives, diarrhea, vomiting, and shortness of breath. In extreme cases, it can lead to anaphylaxis, a potentially fatal condition.

Quinn was diagnosed with MCAS in 2017 after experiencing a series of severe allergic reactions, which began after a nut-related incident. “I got sick with MCAS in September of 2017 after one true allergic reaction to cross-contamination with nuts spiraled into a series of anaphylactic episodes to foods I wasn’t allergic to,” she explained.

The Rules for Safe Kissing

In a viral TikTok video, Quinn shared three strict rules her potential partners must follow to kiss her safely. These rules help her manage her condition while allowing her to maintain a relatively normal social life:

1. No Allergens for 24 Hours: Partners cannot consume any of her six main anaphylactic allergens—peanuts, tree nuts, sesame, kiwi, mustard, or seafood—within 24 hours before kissing her.
2. Fasting Before Kissing: To further reduce the risk, partners must refrain from eating anything for three hours prior to a kiss.
3. Strict Oral Hygiene: Before any physical contact, her partner must brush their teeth to ensure no allergen residues remain.

These precautions are essential for Quinn to avoid potentially fatal allergic reactions, but they also serve as a litmus test for her to determine if someone is serious about her. “If they have to follow a few rules to kiss you, then they obviously care, they’re obviously interested, and they’re willing to put in a good amount of effort,” Quinn stated.

Living With the Risk

Despite the dangers, Quinn chooses not to isolate herself completely. “Kissing boys is definitely a risk,” she acknowledged in a video. “It invites potential instability into my life. But so does everyday life for me.” She explained that while she could avoid kissing altogether, she prefers to take calculated risks to live a full and happy life.

Navigating Relationships with MCAS

Recently, Quinn began dating Ryan, who adapted to her “super restrictive diet of oats and formula.” Ryan’s willingness to follow her strict guidelines is a sign of his care and commitment. Quinn expressed her belief that following these rules not only keeps her safe but also demonstrates the seriousness of a relationship.

Quinn’s story has resonated with many online, as she uses her platform to spread awareness about MCAS and the everyday challenges she faces living with the condition.