Failures are a part of life and push you to walk forward: Mynoo Maryel
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Q. What made you want to become a Motivational Speaker?
A. It has not been a planned approach. There came a point in my life, when from a high-flying corporate executive and pragmatic serial entrepreneur, hobnobbing amongst the top echelons of the business in UK at one end, I was going through an emotional, physical, and mental abuse at the hands of my husband, a childhood love. The personal turmoil, was only know to me and this impacted me …my health and changed the course, of my life. Left everything and leaped out into the great unknown; moved to Bali in 2010 for three months and that turned out to be a 9-year stay, where I experienced a series of spiritual awakenings – and the awareness to my calling in life and that is – having each one to experience miracles…. expect and accept miracles, miracles is the norm! The magical shift that I experienced, and the divine connection was evident in my life which people could witness. One person and the other, created a chain of people seeking advice – a journey to miracle. It became a life calling to bring in the awareness and awakening, that being prosperous and joyful, simultaneously was essential and possible through the divine path. Failures are a part of life and push you to walk forward.
I took him to the ‘Miracle Journey’ at Bali where he and his wife realised their shortfalls and together, they created harmonious ways, only to repair a relationship that reached the point of divorce, only to live a life together even years after the incident. It was very humbling to see that I could transform his life and mend their relation. I was very happy having mentored them, and yes at the same time I admired him, too, he being very ambitious.
Q Your observations on the present-day environment as a Thought Leader, Visionary, Motivational Speaker -a Lifestyle and Business Mentor and Coach…a Global Influencer?
A. In the larger global context, dignity is what has been overlooked! Resultant, there is a growing quest for a deeper connection to the meaning and purpose of life that people are seeking in spite of all the richness, success, and power they may have got! With much emphasis on economic aspects of growth and development, somewhere the connect to the inner self – the soul and with the Universe, has got impacted and we see most of us unhappy and discontentment on the rise. The damaging effects of the exclusive focus on economics – commercialization, as the only viable solution is a shortsighted and limiting worldview. Now is the moment to expand, wisdom-based action, to avert the great environmental crises we now face, as well as to resolve the crises presently unfolding in our social structures? The example I often talk about is: If a tree, is perceived as only having value once it becomes an asset on a balance sheet — which is only once it has been chopped down and converted into a commodity — then, not only is it not being accorded its proper dignity, that dignity is not even under consideration. This same kind of a metric has been applied to human beings, and to nature itself, and we are witnessing its effects now. It is time to come together, to boldly accelerate that evolutionary leap, so many of us have been feeling, to catalyze the shift into the caring, compassionate, creative species that we know, deep down, we are meant to be. World Dignity Forum movement of the POEM Foundation is working towards the same, with dignifylife as its motto! It is a conscious parallel to World Economic Forum and has world fame solutionaries – resolutionaries to bring the solutions and awareness: to serve as a socially, environmentally, and spiritually focused conscious alternative, with Dignity for All, as the centerstage. In fact, we just concluded the first meet of the World Dignity Forum in India in July in Bangalore, and we have announced the launch of our campaign #dignifylife!
Q What would you say is the most difficult part of being a spiritual guru, motivational speaker?
A. As spiritual guru, motivational speaker…. it is about being aware of the person – people… you are addressing…. interacting with. You must be very present to them and get them comfortable, get the trust and hold their attention …be very relevant, relatable and in context, all the time.
As a business and lifestyle coach and mentor, too, there is this expectation and the unsaid responsibility that one must be very aware to. When someone surrenders himself or herself to you, opens-up to share personal and business problems, it is the trust and faith that he /she, will be guided to resolve all, whatever the respective issues and challenges are, and this again requires to be very sensitive and attentive, all the time.
Undoubtedly, it is huge responsibility that, is the most difficult part!
Q How you ensure your speeches are captivating and informative?
A. For sessions and discourses to be captivating and informative, it is very important to be aware of the audience and what is it, all about. This helps to speak and share insights, in the nuances that will help to connect and make the communication have far deeper impact. A passionate and heartfelt connect is the KEY.
In one to one or close-knit sessions and meets, a one on one, personalised approach is best, understanding, each one’s issues and challenges and accordingly, making it worthy and transformational experience!
QHow to live a happy, healthy life and manifest abundance and success?
A.To live a happy and healthy life and manifest abundance and success, its important to acknowledge and unconditionally, accept whatever is occurring in life at a given point of time.
Once acknowledged and accepted, it dissolves all the resentment, stress, and negativity from within, and allows to live in the moment and BE Flow – state when your body, mind and spirit are in complete alignment and harmony, to experience the miracles. Accept the fractured disguise of the human form of the people in your life and draw into the energy of their magnificence, this flows you into the realms of #joy #ease #grace in your life.
Remember, happiness is a decision YOU make, and once you make this decision, JOY is the action you take.
You can then journal the gratitude you feel for all the actions that give you joy, resulting in PEACE becoming the consequence. You find yourself in a state of harmony and peace. This approach continually, regenerates peace, and you find more and more things, to be grateful for.
BE and have, that is the true meaning of ‘behave’ -choose your way of Being and you can have what you intentioned…manifested… health, happiness, success, and abundance.