Do we always remain content, or are we sometimes discontented with ourselves, with others, our shortcomings, or with the conditions prevailing in the world? No one likes to lose what they value, so why do we let go of our contentment?
It is wise to retain one’s contentment no matter what happens. Being content sometimes and discontented at other times is not the best way to live. If our state of mind fluctuates according to circumstances or how others treat us, we are no different from puppets, with little control over our life.
Contentment not only brings us peace, joy, and stability, it is also an invaluable quality that enables us to naturally serve others. People are drawn towards someone who is always content, as the latter are free from expectations and others feel at ease in their company. Such souls are sought after as they are cooperative and unfussy. Everyone likes to involve them in important tasks, knowing very well that they will get along with others and do whatever is required, without seeking special attention. Their quality of contentment keeps bringing them opportunities to serve, which helps them build close connections with people, learn new things, and thereby progress in life.
Since contentment enables us to accommodate the varying moods and nature of all kinds of people, a contented soul is not afraid of, or put off by, anyone’s temperament. Their peaceability earns them appreciation and genuine love. It is one thing to appear to be loving to avoid upsetting someone and quite another to feel and show a true, loving attitude. Contented souls receive genuine love from everyone, and since contentment is always accompanied by happiness, they spread joy wherever they go.
Contentment also inoculates us against several weaknesses, such as anger, jealousy, and ego, as someone who is content does not compare themselves with others, or try to control anyone.
The easy way to remain content is to live by the principles of right conduct. We reap what we sow, and our experiences in life are decided by how we think, speak and act. When we keep doing good, the result can only be good. Challenges and tests will confront us, but they will pass, and since we are sowing the right seeds, the fruit of that will be received sooner or later. Recognition of this immutable law of karma guides us to do the right thing, and keeps us content in the knowledge that our future is bright.
B.K. Sheilu is a Rajyoga teacher at the Brahma Kumaris headquarters in Mount Abu, Rajasthan.