A man recently took to Reddit to share a list of “bare minimum” requirements his Tinder match expects from a future husband—and it’s raising more eyebrows than swipes. The list, which contains 18 detailed expectations, quickly went viral for its combination of ultra-specific traits, financial expectations, and a no-compromise tone that left netizens in splits.
Among the most talked-about points? The man must earn at least $300,000 annually (over ₹2.5 crore), be generous and spoiling, and enjoy a “sophisticated” lifestyle filled with luxury, fine dining, and travel. That’s just the beginning.
Emotional Depth Meets Traditional Values
Her wishlist isn’t just about money and glamour. Right at the top sits, “Loves me deeply and puts me first.” Other emotional and personal attributes she’s looking for include “emotionally intelligent,” “confident,” “ambitious,” “disciplined,” and “family-oriented.”
She also seems to prefer a man with old-school charm, listing “chivalrous and protective” among her must-haves.
She sent me a list of her requirements. One of them includes a salary of $300k+
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Looks, Lifestyle & Bedroom Expectations
The Tinder hopeful didn’t shy away from physical expectations either. The ideal man must be “fit, attractive, and well-groomed,” and value “privacy over social media validation.”
In terms of intimacy, she made it clear that he should be “sexually disciplined and loyal,” and take responsibility for “pregnancy prevention (no hormones for me).” Oh, and he should also “make life easier” by providing a maid, chef, and other conveniences.
Internet Reacts: ‘She’s Going To Be Single Forever’
Reddit was quick to turn the checklist into meme fodder. One user joked, “Anyone that fits each of those probably isn’t on Tinder.” Another added, “Not gonna lie, her list is great if she’s looking for rich 67-year-old divorced dudes or widowers.”
One comment summed up the general sentiment: “Send her the same list back and watch her get mad at you for demanding so much of her lol.”
The Déjà Vu Moment
Interestingly, this isn’t the first time such a matrimonial wishlist has gone viral. Last year, a woman made headlines for demanding a husband with a ₹30 lakh salary, no in-laws, and a 3+ BHK home—all while earning ₹1.3 lakh herself and holding a B.Ed degree.
These viral lists may be entertaining for the internet, but they also spark conversations about modern dating, expectations, and the fine line between standards and dealbreakers.
